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Frequently asked questions on kissing #3
Is kissing somebody else when you are in a relationship considered cheating?
Yes, and no. 99.9% of the population would consider this cheating but a very small number of people would not. In a relationship you need to establish these limits before you ever find yourself in the situation to test them. If you do not know for a fact that your steady is OK with you kissing somebody else then yes, doing so would be cheating. If you know your steady would be OK with it you still have somebody else to think about, namely the other person you are kissing. How will s/he feel when you stay with your current flame? Does s/he know you are spoken for and understand that you have no intention of breaking things off over a kiss? Are you sure that your steady really won’t be hurt or is s/he saying it is OK out of a fear of losing you if s/he says otherwise. This is a complicated matter and life is complicated enough! When you are committed to one person you have no business being with another; why make things more complicated than they need be?
If I kiss somebody in the heat of the moment does that mean I have to start a relationship with him/her?
No. Kissing somebody does not mean you have to start dating them exclusively. In fact, it may be that you don’t even want to date them at all. While it is never a good idea to kiss on a lark, it does happen. If you find yourself in this situation don’t make things worse by ignoring the person you kissed or treating them like they don’t matter. Come clean straight away. Tell them that you were caught up in a moment and that you really don’t have any romantic feelings toward them. Apologize for leading him/her on and mean it. Let them know that you never meant to hurt their feelings but that you have to be honest. Be prepared for the fallout; rumors, angry looks from his/her friends, anger, and take it as it comes, after all you did lead somebody on. It won’t be easy, but it is the right thing to do.
Why do I sometimes get red and tender patches around my mouth after kissing my boyfriend?
Razor burn, the tenderness and redness you speak of happens when a guy’s 6 o’clock shadow rubs against your skin and irritates it. Prolonged kissing is the most common culprit, but it can happen with just a few well-performed kisses as well. There is little you can do to avoid the situation except kiss with less intensity, kiss less often or insist that he be very clean-shaven before every date.
How can I tell if I am a good kisser?
You can’t. What some people think is great kissing, others may dislike. Some people like light tender kissing while others prefer to get all hot and heavy. It is really a matter of preference, practice and chemistry that determines how good you are at kissing. There are a few kissing don’ts that are agreed upon by most people; thumbs down to wet and slobbery kisses, over eager partners, unromantic gestures, overly busy hands and too much tongue.
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